The first thing to do is talk to the person you want to marry. Once you’ve found your soulmate, it’s time to put a ring on it. Well, the game provides you with an Encyclopedia (N), which allows you to sort the kingdoms and look for the ideal candidate.

Sorry to disappoint again, but this is one feature that didn’t change from Warband to Bannerlord.Īlrighty then, you’ve decided to get married, good for you! But, who exactly are you going to get married to?

You cannot marry kings and clan leaders.

Don’t get me wrong, you can flirt to your heart’s content, but ultimately, you will only marry one person.

Rule 2 is bad news for any polygamy fans: you can only marry one person.

You won’t even get the same conversation topics when you speak to someone of the same sex, and you definitely won’t get a chance to flirt with married people, even if it was just to get on their good side.

The first rule states that the players can only marry unmarried characters from the opposite sex.

Before moving on to the more political side of marriage, let’s first explore how players can get married in the game.

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